Sex, Love, Porn Addiction,
& Betrayed Partners

Virtual therapy in Texas, Ohio and Washington

“I find that when it comes down to it - all that’s needed is love. A healthy attachment to feel safe. And whole. And I love helping you get to this place and then you really start to see your life transform.”

Danielle Mendez, LPC, NCC, CTRP-C, CSAT

WHO the f*ck is OnlyFansKendra69?!?!

The sh*t has officially hit the fan.

One of you got busted – maybe it's the late-night porn habit or stepping out on the relationship.

The other half? Stunned, hurt, feeling like the rug’s been pulled out from under you.

It's not just about the secrets; it’s about what they’re doing to your lives, your headspace, your relationship.

You're in this tangled mess together,and it's more than just a little complicated.

Hitting ‘reset’ on your relationship


Picture this: You're both getting a do-over, finding that spark that brought you together in the first place.

Let me be clear – we aren’t just patching things up. It’s about getting real, doing the work, and coming out on the other side stronger.

We're tackling deep-seated traumas, turning around those negative loops in your heads that lead to those not-so-great choices. It's all about creating a space where you both feel secure and open.

The walls of mistrust are coming down. Conversations start to flow easier; you’re laughing more. The bedroom? [Insert NSFW deets here.]

I’m a CSAT first, and a woman second


CSAT = Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. Woman = perspective. I'm here to listen. I'm here to help you. And the more that I know, the more that I can help.

Literally nothing you can say will shock me. I’m unshakable, real, and equipped to handle everything you're both facing.

Whether it's helping you rebuild your relationship or supporting you individually, my approach is all about understanding, healing, and moving forward.

This therapy is for you if you’re experiencing: 

  • Secrets spiraling out of control

  • Shock and hurt from relationship bombshells

  • More drama than romance

  • Fallout from sex and porn addiction

  • Hauntings from old ghosts in your relationship closet

  • Anyone who’s ready to turn tough times into a “we survived the storm” tale

Let’s fix it.